Oops, imbibed a bit too much at the Cinecultist’s birthday gathering last Saturday night and, struggling as I was the next day to emerge from the haze of the second-worst hangover of my life, could barely compose an e-mail thanking the friend who held my hair back as I vomited into the toilet (too much information? I apologize, but this is a blog after all), much less be bothered to write an entry here.
At any rate, I finally got around to seeing what has been, in the niche world of New York cinephiles, much-hyped as the little indie that could. As Liz Penn of The High Sign so rightly observes, part of loving some movies has to do with the way you discover them on your own, like a secret, with no preconceptions to taint your judgment and zero fanfare to accompany their viewing. I’m sure that if I had stumbled upon Andrew Bujalski’s Funny Ha Ha by chance, as many others seem to have done, via cable or some mysteriously-circulating tape, rather than by way of a special trip out to the lone theater currently playing it in the tri-state area, I would’ve adored it as much. It has many elements to which I’m typically drawn, what with its naturalistically-shot, quotidian description of aimless twentysomethings grappling with the vagaries of post-collegiate employment and near-hook-ups (I wonder if my susceptibility to such stories has something to do with the fact that, as a twentysomething whom some might term aimless, I overly identify with the protagonists? Nah). Alas, having been so raved about, I left the darkened room moved by its wafting, disarming charm though far less blown away than I expected to be.
Then, immediately post-viewing and still in a malleable state-of-mind, I made my way down to the basement bathroom of the Cinema Village theater (after sitting through the entirety of the endearingly DIY pencil-on-paper end credits), where a woman (in her 60’s I’d guess) approached me as I washed my hands. She asked if I’d just seen the film and, when I answered in the affirmative, proceeded to inundate me in a rapid-fire series of questions.
Her : So, what was that? I mean, what was it about?
Me: Um . . .
(and beginning with this non-descriptive word to which the Funny Ha Ha crew are so predisposed, I feel myself backed into a corner, automatically aligned with the represented twentysomethings – as the woman clearly sees me - whether I want to be or not)
It’s about the small details of daily life, and the mundane, everyday ways people relate to one another.
Her: Is that how you young people talk these days?
Me: (as soon as she says, “you young people,” I feel myself get defensive)
Not all young people; I don’t think you can generalize that way - definitely some young people. But the director’s trying to capture natural speaking rhythms and awkward silences between people, and I think that’s universal.
Her: Because I never talked like that when I was younger. Not at all.
Me: (her voice drips with such condescension that from here on out, I have no qualms about being firmly pro-Funny Ha Ha)
I think that everyone, at some point or another, finds themselves in embarrassingly uncomfortable situations like that, that everyone experiences the same fumbling for the right words.
Her: But weren’t all the characters so obnoxious?
Me: They’re not meant to be completely likeable
(and here I want to insert, “Aren’t you being a bit obnoxious?,” but I bite my tongue)
That’s the point - they’re not movie characters; they’re real people, with quirks and flaws.
Her: But wasn’t that Alex guy really obnoxiously annoying?
Me: (again, I quash my kindergarten-instinct to reverse-retort, “You’re being really obnoxiously annoying”)
I think he’s meant to be obnoxious. It’s part of the charm he holds for Marnie.
Her: And what about the other one, the one who likes her . . . what’s his name?
Me: Mitchell? I don’t think he’s obnoxious at all . . . just socially-awkward and kind of sweet.
Her: I didn’t like that movie at all.
Me: Well, I did.
(at this point, I say something to excuse myself, and get out of there as quickly as I can)
So it was that I found myself vigorously defending a film about which, just moments before, I’d felt dispassionately. This is the problem with seeing a movie once it’s been over-hyped (a friend had warned me: No! Don’t let it be hyped! Stop reading about it! Just see it!), particularly for an offering as self-effacing as Funny Ha Ha, dealing as it does in such minutiae; the acclaim blows it out of proportion, from which it can never recover (and this is why, unless I’m on the line about whether to see a particular flick, I don’t read reviews until afterwards – but what can I say? Sometimes I get caught up in the excitement).
I may not converse in the halting manner so prevalent to Marnie’s circle of friends, but I identify with them terribly well. The continuous stream of “I don’t know”s and “um”s remind me of the eloquent inarticulateness of My So-Called Life (still one of the best TV shows ever), and that Bujalski’s graduates communicate in this way externalizes the sense that, though we may grow out of our awkward adolescences, somewhere inside, that insecure teenager still hangs. I’m grateful for that stranger’s complete misunderstanding of Funny Ha Ha because, forced to verbalize its positives by dint of some generational allegiance I didn’t know I possessed, I came to a better appreciation of its hemming and hawing.
Seeing it, I remembered an accidental encounter of my own with a film of modest means and goals (though in comparison to Funny Ha Ha’s low production values and non-actors/neophytes, it comes off as positively lavish, its ensemble cast of semi-knowns like huge stars). I went through a phase where, too cheap and principled to rent at the local Blockbuster (pretty much the only option back home in Hawaii), I took to taping chosen cable channels overnight, the random programming post-midnight most appealing to my haphazard tastes. I’d later skim through in search of gold, and though most of the movies I viewed as a result were throwaways, it’s in this roundabout fashion that I happened upon Kicking and Screaming. No, not the Will Ferrell movie, and that’s why I bring it up now. The recent release is sure to push Noah Baumbach’s decade-older movie even further into an obscurity it doesn’t deserve (sadly, it’s not available on DVD yet, which may be part of the problem).
Also a tale of twentysomethings, commencing on the eve of their college graduation, Kicking and Screaming has a lovely simplicity to it that belies its emotional punch. It’s not perfect by any means, but offers up individual moments of such delightfulness - thisclose-to-graduation campus bartender Chet (Eric Stoltz) enumerating his many delayed degrees and expounding upon the joys of perpetual student-hood, riotous Parker Posey commanding her boyfriend (Jason Wiles) to leave the room only to dissolve into laughter when, knowing her well, he spot-on lip-syncs her irate words back to her - that an overall lack of cohesion can be overlooked. Baumbach’s pretty little poem to carefree college days, the “kicking and screaming” of the title a reference to the difficulties most of us have leaving the pleasantries of pre-responsibility independence behind, is immensely relatable. Most affecting are the snippets, interspersed episodically throughout, of main character Grover’s (Josh Hamilton) first conversation with his now-ex, Jane (Olivia d’Abo), in the coffeehouse in which she works. Knowing of the relationship’s eventual demise from the start casts the unfolding scenes with a pervading sense of slowly-accumulating disenchantment (the relationship is over) coupled with hopefulness (the end is the beginning) which peaks poignantly during the film’s final sequence as the flashback narrative arrives at the early inklings of impending love between the pair. The movie’s slightness only heightens the keen sense of loss, as it portrays the hackneyed but startling recognition that dawns post-college like an epiphany, that nothing lasts forever and life is not so simple, a fitting elegy for the heady idealism of those dreamy days.
- km